I have known this guy for a while and we even spoke about having a future together - talked about our wedding and even our children's name. the issue is that I had a daughter outside the wedlock with someone else a few years back. due to terrible circumstances, i had to give her up for adoption - asian families. I do not have any contact whatsoever with her and i told this guy about everything wen we first decided to start a relationship. Our families have had an initial meeting too but now the problem is I want to know what are the views of Sikhism on the fact that i got a child outside wedlock and its impact on my relationship. I am not Sikh im Hindu. Please help me out. I want to know what does it say in Sri Guru Granth Sahib.... is my past the only thing that defines me? Will it be a reason to jeorpardise everything i have :